How to Spot a Hotwife Couple in the Wild

What are some subtle tells that you can look for in the wild that a guy may be a cuck?

It's definitely a good skill to practice. Once you figure out the secret, let the rest of us know! :-D

My general advice is to have some common signs and patterns in mind and add those up as you scope out your next couple. It's never certain that a couple has a particular dynamic, but the more signs they show, the higher the probability they are who you are looking for.

People-watching is a good skill for everyone. For bulls specifically, observe the wife for sure, but also observe the husband. Does he appear:

• impatient

• annoyed

• controlling

• leading

• dominant?

Or perhaps he's passive:

• relaxed

• observant

• comfortable following rather than leading

• Is he wearing anything like a lock or a ring on his right hand (middle finger, ring finger, etc.)?

• Does he give her space?

Watch his body language and posture. Maybe he has a slight smile, but no territorial arm-grab. Maybe he introduces her and then creates space. He doesn't abandon, hangs back. He steps to the bar, starts a side conversation, and he physically gives her room to interact. Often deliberate and practiced.

For her, here are some signs I would look for:

• She makes eye contact and is attentive to the room (a dominant husband wouldn't like her doing this)

• She wears some telling items, such as an anklet (usually on the right ankle)

• Black ring on the right ring finger

• She hangs out by herself much of the time or is with him but isn't very engaged.

• She's dressed disproportionately better / sexier than he is

• She's perceived as being 'out of his league.'

Any one of those things could mean absolutely nothing; all of those things put together could also mean absolutely nothing. I think it's up to you to feel out the situation.

You do have a certain unfair advantage when you're observing people in person, as the rest of your senses could get involved in your observations and help you come to more (arguably) accurate conclusions.

Also, it's a good exercise in general - curiosity is a wonderful asset and can be used for much more than scoping the next wife you'd like to get inside of. Be social first, sexual second (or third or fourth).

Men who are the best at 'the approach' are opportunistic. They don't force an opening, don't intrude if it doesn't feel natural, they participate in their environment, sometimes that means waiting for a door to open, sometimes that means taking their turn.

There are a multitude of reasons a couple may not want to be approached at that moment, and most don't involve her candidates at all. Insecure boys struggle with this. They take any sign of rejection as a personal attack, which leads them to feel and behave badly. Men who can handle "rejection" in stride, almost as if it didn't happen, are appreciated for their strength and confidence, and they often find opportunities spring back up where they weren't possible before.

So, if you see something that sets off your spidey senses (in a good way), consider approaching. Be professional, even mildly friendly. Be attentive and curious. Give her some eye contact and a smile, and see if she reciprocates. Escalate with some friendly or neutral conversation. If it turns out that they aren't a hotwife couple, it's just an innocent conversation.